The Duchess Who Wouldn't Sit Down

An Informal History of Hospitality by Jesse Browner.

The first part of this book contains interesting stories about entertaining etiquette throughout history. The author sums up the book and his finding about being the perfect host by discussing what he views at the perfect dinner party and ends with perfect Thanksgiving dinner. Contrary to what you might think the conclusion is that to give your guests the best evening is to keep it simple. Although Mr. Browner enjoys a nicely catered dinner (who doesn’t!) he reminds the reader that cooking a simple meal for a smaller crowd provides the best experience not only for your guests, but for YOU to enjoy your party along with them.

Perhaps St. Thomas More said it best: "The ordinary acts we practice every day at home are of more importance to the soul than their simplicity might suggest."

Showing our friends and family how much we care for them by simply inviting them to spend an evening with us. Does it really matter how fancy the table setting or gourmet the meal? And at our house, the best part of the evening if after the meal… NO, not dessert (I do not have a sweet tooth and do not bake, I always forget to plan some sort of dessert, which is why if I have ever invited you over and you asked what you could bring, I suggested dessert), but for me and my house GAMES!